Live. Love. Travel.

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Twelve months on and 7,700+ blog hits and views from 70 countries, my blog has been around the world and back again.

All great ideas start from that one idea, that one step.

To adventure… to travel… is to have a story at the end of all this.

The places you go and the people you meet, will fuel you forever.

My journey started with me breaking up with London. It wasn’t London, it was me. I needed to explore other lifestyle options. I needed to spend more time on the things I love most. I needed to live in the moment and see what life wanted to throw at me.

Commuting through London in my last week in the big smoke, I came across this quote, “Life is too short, to wake up in the morning with regrets. So love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don’t and  believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it…  If it changes your life let it.  Nobody said it would be easy, they just promised it would be worth it”.  In life, it’s rarely about getting a chance; it is about taking a chance. You will never be 100% sure it will work, but you can always be 100% sure doing nothing won’t work. Most of the time you just have to go for it. And no matter how it turns out, it always ends up just the way it should be. Either you succeed or you learn something. Win-Win.

A year on, I find myself reflecting over the last few months, the chances I took as I embarked on a trip of a lifetime. From the streets of Bangkok, to the snow capped mountains in Nepal, culturally diverse and beautiful India, sleeping under the stars in the Philippines and discovering life down under in Australia.  Australia has potentially been the biggest surprise out of my adventure, possibly because it was the biggest change. I would never have dared to imagine the impact Australia would have on my life and saying goes “life begins at the end of your comfort zone”, rings true as when you leave the familiar, you can’t help but be changed by the foreign, and now halfway around the world, I feel more at home than ever.

I still have that yearning for the wide open road and the restless feeling that goes with a travelling spirit… I have no idea what Australia holds for me long term, but right now (hopefully if it all goes as planned), it doesn’t look like I am going anywhere…

 

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Ian and Sarah, Sydney Wedding

A sneaky little look from the wedding I photographed, when a handsome Australian boy married his Welsh Beauty.Mr&MrsTerley_271213_199Mr&MrsTerleyMr&MrsTerleyMr&MrsTerleyMr&MrsTerley_271213_272Mr&MrsTerleyCongratulations Ian and Sarah – we wish you a beautiful life together! x

Dan and Rachel, London Wedding

3 years ago, this beautiful couple said I do.  Happy Anniversary #timeflies#londonwedding

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{Photo of the Day}: Urban Bondi

Urban Bondi

 

Taking to the Open Road… A serious case of Wanderlust

Tunisia

No·mad              

  • One without a home who moves around or travels freely without ties holding them back
  • A constant or full time traveller

Ten years ago, I left sunny South Africa for London with no inclination of what would come or where I would end up.  I was driven by my dream, which I had since I was a little girl to see the world.  I was intrigued by far away flung places and cultures and I knew that I wanted to travel the world.

Earlier this year, after nearly a decade in London, I decided that I needed to spend more time on the things I love most. I needed to live in the moment and see what life wants to throw at me.  I have always said that I am happiest when… I am traveling and I have a camera in my hands and I am now three months in to my adventure.

I find myself, however, thinking a lot about home lately…  Where is home? Where do I feel most at home?  How do I make myself feel at home when I am not in the actual place I live?

The trouble with moving around is that you fall in love with new places.  A friend explained to me one sunny afternoon, that you end up leaving  a piece of your heart in each of them.  You have an inability or maybe is that more a case of an unwillingness to settle in one place as you are constantly drawn to another.  It makes you restless and curious.  You forgo the possibility of feeling at home and you become a nomad giving up the possibility of intimacy, of commitment. One of the drawbacks is a sense of “rootlessness”. The belief that you belong simultaneously everywhere and nowhere.

When I meet people and they ask me “So, where are you from?”,  I always determine what level of answer I want to share…  There’s the short story — “South Africa.”  There’s the potential story — “South Africa, but I spent ten years of my life living abroad.”  And finally there’s the all out response — “I am originally from South Africa but I lived in London for ten years and I now find myself in Sydney”.  I consider myself to be different parts of all these places and people.

Home does not always need to be a place, it is an experience of belonging, a feeling of being whole and known. It’s those attachments that liberate us more than they constrain. As the expression suggests, home is where we are from — the place where we begin to be.  “Home” has nothing to do with where I sleep or where I store my belongings. I am lucky to have an incredible community of family and friends who span the globe and welcome me with open arms when I find myself in their respective cities.  I’m so grateful to feel like I belong amongst so many groups of people and in so many places.  Hard as it may be to reconcile local and international homes, it is a privilege to have a chance to live in both and I am happy to know that I am woven into the web in so many different worlds.   The expression “home is where the heart is” – rings true. No matter where you end up, you are always at home.

{Photo of the Day}: Look into my eyes

{Photo of the Day}: Durbar Square

Durbar Square

{Photo of the Day}: Monkeying Around at Pashupatinath

Pashupatinath

{Photo of the Day}: Walking the Goats

Chitwan National Park

Melbourne Brighton Beach

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